South River School Board Addresses Student Emotional Health and Grief
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Meeting Type:
School Board
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Meeting Date:
05/16/2024
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Recording Published:
05/17/2024
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Duration:
54 Minutes
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State:
New Jersey
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County:
Middlesex County
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Towns:
South River
- Meeting Overview:
At the recent South River School Board meeting, a portion of the discussion centered on the emotional well-being of students in the face of loss and grief, highlighting the work of guest speaker Mr. George Scott, an expert in guiding schools through challenging situations related to student loss.
Mr. Scott, who has been working with both students and staff at the middle school and high school, provided an overview of the effects of grief and loss on families and the community. He discussed the different types of stress: positive, tolerable, and toxic, and outlined how toxic stress manifests in children, noting symptoms such as irritability, decreased performance, and substance abuse as maladaptive coping mechanisms. Emphasizing the importance of understanding vulnerability, Mr. Scott connected emotional challenges to their potential impact on the immune system.
The speaker also delved into the physiological and psychological responses to grief, stressing the necessity for individuals to be attentive to their reactions to stress. The role of family cultural rituals in processing grief was highlighted, alongside the importance of sleep and established routines for those dealing with loss. The board heard how electronic devices in the bedroom can be detrimental to rest and how grief can disrupt sleep due to fear and anxiety, particularly following the death of a classmate or a personal brush with mortality for the first time.
Mr. Scott offered practical suggestions for mitigating fear-related sleep disturbances, such as maintaining proper hydration to regulate cortisol levels. He further discussed the behavioral impacts of grief on children, such as fear of falling asleep, pervasive worry about danger, and tendencies toward isolation. The significance of family dinner time and open communication within the family was emphasized as critical in supporting children through challenging times. He noted the importance of affirming children’s value within the family dynamic.
Further, the conversation at the meeting turned toward the significance of facial expressions in recognizing emotional struggles and the science of relationships. It was pointed out that simple actions, like a 20-second hug, can foster attachment and emotional stability. The speaker advocated for the utilization of support systems, including school counselors, therapists, and community resources, and provided guidance on how to identify and address concerns about a child’s well-being.
Mr. Scott did not stop at discussing the support systems for children; he underscored the importance of self-care for parents as well. Healthy sleep patterns, nutrition, exercise, and maintaining relationships are vital for managing stress, which can otherwise lead to substance use as an indicator of elevated stress levels. Recommendations were made for several books focused on parenting, understanding the impact of lived experiences on biology, and the principles of non-punitive discipline. He emphasized the role of caregivers in shaping a child’s well-being and the significance of understanding and addressing the root causes of behavioral and health issues.
Throughout the presentation, Mr. Scott highlighted the interconnectedness of physical and emotional well-being and the importance of proactive support systems. The discussion may prompt further dialogues on optimal strategies for promoting resilience and overall health in children.
Sylvia Zircher
School Board Officials:
Cynthia Urbanik, Kevin Nielsen, Raymond Baszak, John Budzin, Lisa Byrne, Elizabeth Lell, Nicole Sadowski, Jennifer Yong Yow
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Meeting Type:
School Board
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Meeting Date:
05/16/2024
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Recording Published:
05/17/2024
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Duration:
54 Minutes
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Notability Score:
Routine
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State:
New Jersey
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County:
Middlesex County
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Towns:
South River
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